Tagged by Pauline (who probably knows I won’t reject doing this =x)
RULE #1 People who have been tagged must write their answers on their blogs and replace any question that they dislike with a new question formulated by themselves. (Okay! Fine by Me! Weirdo!)
RULE #2 Tag 5 people to do this quiz and those who are tagged cannot refuse. These people must state who they were tagged by and cannot tag the person whom they were tagged by continuing this game by sending it to other people.
1. Do you have secrets?
Plenty! I think some secrets have to be hidden/kept where as some habits or experiences become secrets by themselves – you don’t feel the need to share them so it becomes personal.
2. Would you fall in love with a boy/girl older than you?
I don’t know, actually. They always say it’s most suitable to go for a boy who is 2 years older than you because they are some how much more mature (but some say 2 years don’t really make a difference in maturity for boys hahaha) and you both start work about the same time so there’s less burden on you if you were to both get married and have the urge to start a family asap. It actually makes a whole lot of sense, but if you want to ‘play safe’, then you’re just missing out on so many more possibilities. Stay open-minded!
3. How long do you intend to wait for someone u really love?
Speaking from my current LIFE, … I only have the patience to wait for an hour. After that I’ll usually get mad and head to some cafe/window shop to allow time to fly by faster, while complaining to him that he’s very, very late and I am unhappy, and then when he turns up I will bring him hell.
But If this question was asked when I was single, I willl wait only some 2 years max. If he asks you to wait (which is strange for a guy but… I’ll take it as that), he better not be doing random things in this time, but preparing himself for the deadline when we’re meeting. Some people say wait, but they just mean to say ‘I need some time to ‘get to know other people’,’ or ‘I don’t think you might be the one yet’ or (the really dumb)’ This is a test of love’, I mean seriously?! … Waiting 2 years for someone to settle down the first few years into university/ starting his own business might be okay, but I don’t believe in how a relationship can be that big of a distraction because it’s up to him to weigh how important it is in his life. And of course, I would have to be understanding too. So max 2 years I guess!
If I were drunk and sober, perhaps I’d wait a lifetime. =) Heh.
4. What would you do with a billion dollars?
So cute! Pauline has a similar answer to me. =) Feng likes lambos too!
1. I’ll get my family everything they NEED (not everything they WANT)
2. I’ll set aside the money for a lamborghini gallardo for my love, and SPOIL HIM (might). =)
3. I’ll treat my friends to good food and happy getaways. ^^
4. Give Art Class the money we need for materials so the teachers don’t have to worry so much.
5. Funds, chairty and campaigns I believe in/trust.
6. I’ll enroll myself in 3 volunteer programmes, and set up a shop. =)
7. Save the rest. =)
5. Would you fall in love with your best friend?
I don’t think so. Well it might happen if my sexual orientation is a little kookoo, but still the chances are very small. It’s like right now I’d prefer my best friends as friends, not as partners in a love relationship.
6. Which is more blessed, loving someone or being loved by someone?
Both. This question is hard. I find loving someone to be an act that comes straight from the heart so it’s 100% natural and no longer a chore, and then sometimes when you both quarrel, loving someone completely becomes so difficult because of that invisible barrier, that makes both parties so much less receptive to love. The inability to love can sometimes be a torture as well. Being loved is an amazing feeling. Like I said, this question is a bully. =(
7. How do you define love?
Love definitely has to be addictive, not in the sense that it works like a drug, but because it has ingenious ways of getting into your system, enveloping you completely such that … your life isn’t really yours anymore, it’s also someone else’s. It’s like two lives intwine. It becomes a responsibility, never a burden, and is everlasting (with positive thinking)!
8. If the person you secretly like is already attached, what would you do?
I believe the right thing to do is back off? … No discussion!
9. What makes you happy?
Love, good buddies, happy family, glorious food (tempura prawns thank you very much!!!), excitement, thrill of new experiences, art and beautiful, fantastic things. Reflecting and being blessed. =)
10. What makes you sad?
Being hungry, being bullied, not getting my way, having not enough money to spend on material wants (this is bad!!!), getting hurt in ANY way because I’m like uber sensitive to pain(like poking my thumb when twining wire) ow, not having enough good sleep, having a bad dream, having a head ache, being late for an important thing! Many more but I need a while to think heeeeee ^^
11. How would you see yourself in 10 years time?
In 10 years I will be 27. I want to get married by 26, have one child by then, be teaching and working, living in a nice cozy little place the ith the love of my life and family, I want to be baking loads of sweet delicacies and wishing them merry christmas eve next to a large christmas tree =) -speaking of xmas trees, we’ve had ours since I was 3-4, and we put it up every year, and I wonder if I can have it with me when I’m still 27. =D
12. Who are currently the most important people to you?
my family and my darling sweetest love (who just woke up) =D *Groggy*
13. What is the most important thing in your life?
Happiness. I know it sounds overrated, but without that, life’s pretty sad don’t you think?
15. Would you rather be single and rich or married but poor?
Neither… I want to be married and rich? Actually I’m fine being married and have enough to spend for the family, but it’s always better to be well off, a whole lot more freedom to do things you and your family wants to do, and much less financial burden on everyone. I should start saving again =)
15. What is your favourite colour?
Still metallic colours. But I’ve also recently started lovin the colour of pearls, that natural/undyed colour that has a tinge of peach/yellow depending on what type it is. I’ve got one the size of the fingernail on my last pinky that came naturally from the mouth of the shell (I was to dig it out myself but got too scared so the guy did it for me) that I got in US when I was younger. So pretty!!! =)
16. If you fall in love with two people simulateneously, and both do the same, who would you pick?
This would only be applicable if I weren’t attached now so, assuming I’m single and I meet a situation like this… I’d pick the one I feel more for. I mean, wouldn’t that be your most natural thought? Like Pauline said, natural selection. It’s true, you realize? If you want to be sensitive and unselfish, you could pick neither, but if you let it continue fuelling in them then you’re just being mean. Don’t you know that boys torture themselves thinking!
17. Would you forgive and forget no matter how horrible a thing someone has done?
Very unlikely. It depends on how ‘horrible’ the experience was. I think I’ve only really never forgived one person, and I think she knows it whenever we converse, because the truth is I’ve already forgiven twice, and asking me to do it a third time is like a big slap in my face again, who knows what’s going to happen next? Another year down the road and I’m forgiving for the fifth/sixth time? Impossible, so I just gave up. This case, as many people have told me, is pointless to think about because you’re practically running in circles all the time, so just take it like it’s invisible. Sounds everything mean, but it makes a lot of sense, and I agree. It’s become a friendship I don’t ever want to make happen.
18. What would you tell someone you like?
Like? not love? …Erm, Merry christmas? (: Haha.
Actually I’m the type who says ‘I think you’re so nice to talk to’ when I like you. (: Hahaha, many people know that I like them! Don’t use it against me!
19. If there is a choice between love and friendship, which will you choose?
Assuming that I’m single. It depends on what type of person he/she is. If he says ‘only love, no friendship’, then we won’t even be friends, but then everything’s more complicated than that, so, it’s hard to tell. If the situation tells me that it’s better just to be friends, then we’ll just be friends, the same for love.
20. Do you believe that there’s “True Love”?
Definitely.
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Didn’t replace any questions! Hmm.. Should I add another? =D
21. If you were walking on the street and slipped and landed on your spinal cord and were paralyzed from your neck down, what would you do? =D
The 5 people who’re going to do this survey (and kill me in the process):
Chen
Kevy
Lena
Jiayi
Jiayun (sister) =P
If you don’t want to do it, just ignore it la, but you’ll be breaking a LEGACY!!! -warns- And terrible things will happen to you… =P